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- is suraTebi xrova 11 Feb 2011

am postSi minda ganvixilo is TamaSebi, romelTac mamakacebi vTamaSobT qalebTan urTierTobisas. uxSires SemTxvevaSi am TamaSebs, susti, unebisyofo mamakacebi TamaSoben. ama Tu im doziT yvela TamaSis mizani da motivi aris pasuxismgeblobis Tavidan arideba da sakuTari uZlurebis gamarTleba. xSirad am TamaSebs Tavad qalebic uwyoben xels. magaliTad imgvari TamaSebiT maTi mxridan, rogoricaa “me mxolod Seni daxmareba msurda” an “deda tereza” (es ukanaskneli ufro cxovrebiseuli scenaria vidre TamaSi). maS ase, ganvixiloT ramdenime TamaSi, romelTac mamakacebi TamaSoben.

“Sexede ra vqeni Seni gulisTvis!…”
es TamaSi SeiZleba gaxdes ganqorwinebis an urTierTobis dasrulebis mizezi. TamaSis siuJeti Semdegia: qmari Tavis saqmiTaa dakavebuli. am dros oTaxSi Semodis coli an bavSvi, imis sakiTxavad Tu sad devs, vTqvaT, asanTi. Sedegad kacs xelidan uvardeba funji, usxlteba dana da iWris xels, araswor klaviSs urtyams sabeWd mamqanaze (gaaCnia ra saqmiTaa dakavebuli). is gabrazebulia da yviris: “Sexede ra vqeni Seni gulisTvis!”
am TamaSis sxvadasxva varianti arsebobs. isini erTmaneTisgan emociuri daZabulobis intensivobiTa da Sedegebis savalaloobiT gansxvavdebian. ukanasknel stadiaSi saqme gvaqvs paranoidul pirovnebasTan, romelic yvelaferSi sxvebs adanaSaulebs da maTdami SurisZiebis JiniTaa anTebuli.
aseve SesaZlebelia am TamaSis Semdegi saxecvlileba: coli sakuTar Tavze iRebs ojaxis finansuri sakiTxebis movarebas raTgan qmari “moukoWlebs ariTmetikaSi.” qmari amas siamovnebiT Tanxmdeba., magram garkveuli xnis Semdeg aRmoCens rom cols Cveulebrivze gacilebiT meti dauxarjavs, rac ojaxur uTanxmoebas iwvevs. magram sinamdvileSi mamakacs mTlianad am TamaSis ganmavlobaSi sWirdeba rom colma aiRos sakuTar Tavze pasuxismgebloba, Wirdeba viRac visac gadaabralebs sakuTar uniaTobas (Tundac funjis gavardnas xelidan). fsiqologiurad am TamaSs safuZvlad mamakacis qvecnobieri SiSi udevs. SiSi imisa, rom is arasrulfasovanad asrulebs Tavis funqcias, rom SeiZleba rameSi “CaiWras,” xolo Semdegi agresia da wamoZaxili “Sexede ra vqeni Seni gulisTvis” mxolod dacviT meqanizms warmoadgens Tavis gasamarTleblad. seqsualuri kuTxiT SesaZloa adgili hqondes naadrev eakulacias, rasac mamakaci bunebrivia kvlav qals gadaabralebs, sinamdvileSi ki mas sakuTari sqesobrivi uZlurebis eSinia. cxovrebiseuli pozicia am dros aris “me araferSi ar var damnaSave.”
“naxe, ramdens vcdilobdi”
am TamaSSi sami kaci, ori meuRle da mezobeli, Tu megobari an Tundac fsiqoTerapevti monawileoben. mamakacs am dros ganqorwineba surs, magram amas pirdapir ver eubneba cols. qals ki gulwrfelad surs ojaxis SenarCuneba. amis gamo is fsiqoTerapevts an vinme axlobels mimarTavs daxmarebisTvis. qmari sakuTari survilis sawinaaRmdegod, ZaliT midis fsiqoTerapevtTan seansze. is Zalze konstruqtiuli da TavSekavebulia, yvelafers asrulebs rasac fsiqoTerapevti eubneba, yvelaferze Tavs uqnevs mas da saerTod ise iqceva, TiTqos verc ki xvdeba raSia problema – raxan colma moiyvana ese igi Tavad mas aqvs problema. garkveuli xnis Semdeg qmari wyvets vizitebs fsiqoTerapevtTan, vTqvaT, ZmakacebTan saTevzaod wasvlis mizniT. SemdgomSi mas SeuZlia damSvidebiT uTxras axloblebs an cols: “me ise vcdilobdi, magram mainc araferi gamovida.” sinamdvileSi mas arc undoda rom raime gamosuliyo da Tavisi qmedebiT is yvelanairad amtkicebda amas. TamaSis faruli mizania pasuxismgeblobis gadabareba sxvaze. am SemTxvevaSi colsa da fsiqoTerapevtze.
qarTul realobaSi vxvdebiT am TamaSis saxecvlil formas. kerZod TamaSs “me Seni Rirsi ar var.” me da Cem kolegebs xSirad gvqonia am TamaSze dakvirvebis saSualeba. is SemdegSi mdgomareobs: mamakacs didi xania mobezrda mocemuli urTierToba an raRacis gamo ar awyobs igi. imis magivrad rom es pirdapir uTxras qals da maT erTad ipovon gamosavali mdgomareobidan, kaci iwyebs ucnaur qcevas – ikargeba, ar ekontaqteba qals, igonebs saamisod sxvadasxva mizezs. xSirad Zmakacebis garemocvaSi misgan SegiZliaT moisminoT fraza “:au daviRale ra..” an “guli gamiwyala am gogom…” bolos da bolos rodesac qali xvdeba, rom “raRacaSia saqme” da daJinebiT iTxovs axsnas, kaci eubneba “ici, me Sen Zalian miyvarxar, magram me Seni Rirsi verasdros gavxdebi, imedi maqvs Rirseul mamakacs ipovni da bednieri iqnebi masTan.” am yvelafris mizezi gaxlavT is rom 1) kaci xedavs rom ver daamyarebs seqsuaklur, “gasarTob” urTierTobas qalTan, xolo seriozul urTierTobisTvis da ojaxis SeqmnisTvis is jer araa mzad. 2) meore variants adgili aqvs maSin, rodesac qali TamaSobs “gamocdas” xolo sasowarkveTil mamakacs marTlac hgonia rom is araa am qalis Rirsi. orive SemTxvevaSi adgili aqvs mamakacis mxridan arasrulfasovnebis gancdas, rac urTierTobis dasrulebis mizezi xdeba.
alkoholiki

es erTerTi klasikuri TamaSia. masSi sami monawilea: msxverpli (alkoholiki an narkomani qmari), moZalade (coli an deda) da mxsneli (megobari, axlobeli, fsiqoTerapevti, eqimi). siuJeti Semdegnairad viTardeba: mamakaci, romelic msxverplis rols TamaSobs, alkoholiki an narkomania. is periodulad svams an moixmars sxva fsiqoaqtiur nivTierebebs. am dros is saSinlad iqceva, zedapirze misi pirovnebis yvela Crdilovani mxare amodis erTdroulad: agresia, seqsualuri gadaxrebi, sxva cxoveluri instiqtebi, sicrue da sxva. bunebrivia rom amgvari saqcieli aRSfoTebas da gaRizianebas iwvevs garSemomyofebSi, gansakuTrebiT colSi an sidedrSi, romlebic am SemTxvevaSi Tavad gamodian moZaladeebad – isini sayveduroben mamakacs, emuqrebian, rom Semdeg dalevaze saxlSi aRar SemouSveben da a.S. gamofxizlebul mdgomareobaSi kacs sinanulis grZnoba ipyrobs da is “cdilobs gamoasworos” Tavisi saqciekli, magram mware gamocdilebis mqone coli aRar patiobs mas. Sedegad mas absoluturi monstris imiji eqmneba qmris TvalSi. is xelmeored bruvdeba (svams, narkotiks Rebulobs) da kvlav aRviraxsnil mdgomareobaSi bruindeba saxlSi. am istoriaSi aris mesame mxarec, romelTanac alkoholiki saSvelad midis. es SeiZleba iyos gamyidveli, romelic nisiad miscems arays an megobari, romelic fuls miscems RvinisTvis da Tan anugeSebs da moismens alkoholikis wuwuns cxovrebis usamarTlobis Sesaxeb. SesaZlebelia es iyos fsiqoTerapevtic an eqimi narkologi, romlebic mkurnaloben mas. Tu alkoholiki ver Rebulobs Sesaferis mxardaWeras mxsnelTan, is SesaZloa gadavides muqaraze.
TamaSis faruli mesijia: “naxeT ra sacodavi da uZluri var! SemicoodeT da SemifareT! Cemi uaxloesi adamianebi – ojaxis wevrebi – namdvili monstrebi arian. damicaviT maTgan!” am TamaSs ZiriTadad “dedikos biWebi” TamaSoben, isini visac despoti dedebi yav(da)T da miCveulni arian qalis mxridan agresiul, dammorCilebel mopyrobas. Sedegad isini yvela qalisgan gaucnobiereblad imaves moiTxoven.
“alkoholiki” Zalian kargad Seexemeba qalis mxridan TamaS “deda Tereza”–s. amgvari wyvili “srul harmoniaSia” erTmanarTTan. aq SesaZloa Tavad colmac iTamaSos mxsnelis roli. mas Zalze ecodeba uiRblo qmari, romelsac “ar gaumarTla cxovrebaSi.” misTvis is yvelafers gaakeTebs. manam sanam ar aRmoaCens, rom yvelaferi es principSi blefia.
“ufliswuli”
bolos minda SemogTavazoT cxovrebiseuli scenari “ufliswuli.” am scenars irCeven is mamakacebi romlebic “qalis xsnisa da gadarCenis” JiniT arian Sepyrobilni. rogorc wesi amgvar mamakacebs didi TanagrZnoba aqvT dedis mimarT, romelsac aseve ar gaumarTla pirad cxovrebaSi. amitom isini cdiloben sxva qalebi gaabednieron da “arasdros ar moeqcnen cols ise rogorc mama eqceoda dedas.” eseTi mamakacebi SesaSuri sizustiT sazRvraven da urTierTobas iWeren problemis mqone qalebTan. imaTTan, visac dedis msgavasad ar gaumarTlaT pirad cxovrebaSi. Sinagani Tu garegani mizezebiT. am TamaSis/scenaris mimdevari mamakacebi garkveul etapze xvdebian rom “raRac ise araa” da iwyeben wuwuns imasTan dakavSirebiT rom ar umarTlebT, qalebs ar esmiT maTi. sinamdvileSi ki Tavad arian sakuTari “uiRblobis” saTave. maT emociurad yvelaze metad xom ubeduri qalebi izidavT. qalebi, romlebTanac arc erTi saR gonebaze myofi kaci ar daiWerda saqmes.
“ufliswulis” qalur analogad SesaZloa “deda tereza” davasaxelloT. aqac qali iswrafvis “gadaarCinos” an “gasmoasworos” mamakaci, magram Sedegad iRebs mxolod umadur narkomanebsa da alkoholikebs. es scenari agreTve exmianeba scenar “mZinare mzeTunaxavs,” sadac qali moelis “TeTr raSze amxedrebul princs,” romelic ixsnis mas borotisagan.

wyaro: http://www.ireporter.ge/?p=5251
gamoxmaureba

- is suraTebi vefxvi 13 Feb 2011

xrova
am statiis azri da mizani ver gavige... rad unda am qcevebs amdeni axsna da ganmarteba?? yvelka akeTebs imas rac unda... xom asea??? xoda yvelas Tavisi gza da meTodi aqvs am miznis misaRwevad... ra problemaa???
gamoxmaureba

- is suraTebi Flyout 20 Feb 2011

Tu iumoris gerZnobiT daweril postad aRviqvamT, maSin kargia, magram Tu marTla ase uyurebs yvelafers amis avtori, maSin ver hqonia saqme mTlad kargad :)
gamoxmaureba

- is suraTebi vampire 21 Feb 2011

am statiis arsi imaSi mdgomareobs rom fsiqologebi yovelTvis eblatavebian sazogadoebas viTom maTze metis codniT, sinamdvile ki aseTia: adamianis moqmedebebi auxsneli da gauTvaliswinebelia, asea ra, daamTavra biWma fsiqologiis fakulteti verbaluri da araverbaluri komunikaciis xerxebi iswavla, iq filosofiasac gaecno, froidsa da kants gadaavlo Tvali mixvda zearseba varo inteleqtis mozRvaveba igrZno da WianWvelebis anu arafsiqologebis damoZRvra daiwyo. saboloo jamSi ki elementaruli gaarTul daakonkreta.

gamoxmaurebis naxvaFlyouts citata(dapostvis dro 20 February 2011 - 11:21 PM):

maSin ver hqonia saqme mTlad kargad
da ara marto mag statiis avtors :givi: zogadad yvela fsiqologi mase fiqrobs rom viRacaze raRaciT metia.
gamoxmaureba

- is suraTebi qeti32 13 Jul 2011

. vampire
da ara marto mag statiis avtors zogadad yvela fsiqologi mase fiqrobs rom viRacaze raRaciT metia.

saerTod fsiqologebma Zalian kargad ician adamianis buneba (profanebs ar vgulisxmob) magram Turme verafriT ver axerxeben sakuTari cxovrebis marTvas da sakuTari problemebis mogvarebas. anu sxvas SeiZleba daexmaros magram igive problemas TviTon veraferi mouxerxos :what:
gamoxmaureba